Question 1

How can I meet you?

Accepted Answer

Please fill out my contact form on my "Arrange a Date" page. Alternatively, you can contact me via email at nina.o.australia@protonmail.com, provided you include all the details required in my contact form (such as itinerary details, deposit preference, screening information etc).

Question 2

Deposits

Accepted Answer

A deposit is requested to confirm our date. For both in situ and FMTY dates, the deposit is at minimum 20% of the total. Deposits are non-refundable, but can be transferred to a different date that same month, provided at least 48 Hours notice is given for in situ dates or 72 Hours for a FMTY. I accept Wise, Bank Transfer, USDT and Bitcoin.  For the remaining sum, I accept any of these methods and cash.Please give cash in a secure envelope and discretely, such as inside an envelope attached to a bouquet, hidden inside a book or any other creative and discrete presentation would delight me.

Question 3

Screening

Accepted Answer

Safety, both mine and yours, is a serious matter. I use Protonmail and Proton encrypted storage for all data and only ever hold personal information as long as is strictly necessary.  For my eyes only. When you complete my contact form, you will be asked to provide one of the following:Your professional Company website or LinkedIn profile, showing your full legal name and photo. 
Two references from current, reputable independent providers and the date of your last meeting. Please make sure they are happy to provide this reference. Alternative Forms of ScreeningPhoto ID. Please nominate this as your preferred method in your contact form.

Question 4

Cancellations

Accepted Answer

I understand that life can be chaotic (and my favourite people often  have the craziest schedules), so cancellations are a fact of life! Deposits are non-refundable, but can be transferred to another date within the next 30 days of the originally scheduled date. When cancellations fall within 48 Hours of an in situ date or 72  Hours of a FMTY date, the deposit (up to 50% of the total) is non-transferrable. If you have sent over 50% deposit, any remaining sum is transferrable to a future date within the next month. I have never cancelled a date. If you happen to be my first, you have the choice of a refund or transferring your deposit to a future date.

Question 5

Incalls

Accepted Answer

I don't host at present,  but I  am more than happy to arrange a  5-star hotel  for our date/stay, the cost of which will be added to your deposit payment.

Question 6

Same Day

Accepted Answer

Due to my busy uni/life schedule, short notice dates are rarely a possibility, but you are welcome to try. That said, I understand that interesting people lead busy lives and I do love to be whisked away on a last-minute trip or a fabulous evening when my schedule allows. Same day dates incur a AU$500 (approx. US $350) rush fee.

Question 7

Date Ideas

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I am more than happy to make suggestions or to take the helm with planning our date or adventure. I have an extensive list/wishlist of restaurants/hotels/experiences and many chic friends across the globe that I regularly call on for suggestions. If you are also the adventurous sort, I have a bunch of dive spots/sailing, skiing and hiking destinations in mind for future adventures, available to established friends only. My preferences I have never met a cuisine I didn't enjoy, I am enthusiastic about spice and also love a sumptuous fine dining experience. I am gluten free by preference (not coeliac)  and prefer restaurants where this is an option. However, I do make exception for degustation experiences. 5 Star hotels and resorts only.

Question 8

Friends

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I have a number of gorgeous friends and crushes all over the globe that I would be delighted to invite on our date. I also love meeting new colleagues, ideally when we're both clad in lace and little else!

Question 9

Additionals

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While I am not kink-forward online, I have a proclivity towards flavours-other-than vanilla and am an experienced switch. I love to make dreams come true (this is your invitation).

Question 10

Ongoing Arrangements

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Ongoing arrangements build the most special, lasting and delightful connections.Arrangements are open for discussion after one multiple-day date or two dates/overnights. InclusionsRegular communication, regular dates and/or travel, as you desire. You will also be prioritised in my schedule. ExpectationsAt minimum, an initial two-month commitment is to be paid in advance and monthly thereafter. Travel expenses remain additional. ParticularsAll particulars to be agreed upon between us.  Quarterly and annual arrangements are also available.

Question 11

My Travel Wishlist

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New places and experiences bring me the utmost joy and excitement, especially when I can share it with somebody special! I have visited  more than 5 countries for the first time in 2026.My WishlistNew Zealand, for nature and comparatively friendly wildlife, compared to back home! Archaeological sites: Göbekli Tepe, anywhere on Crete, Santorini/Thera, Sicilian Valley of the temples.Anything Minoan/Mycenean, Greek or Roman.Perhaps for a fellow Classicist or a sapiosexual who wouldn't mind an excited monologue/occasional gasp. Roland Garros and US Open, the tennis grand slams which I am yet to attend. Anywhere in Africa, especially if it involves Safari or climbing to Tewahedo church in Ethiopia. Machu Pichu, Patagonia. Maldives (especially for scuba diving, sunbathing). Whitsundays (scuba/sailing and sunbathing) Beijing/China (for the food, for celadon ceramics and my own curiosity). New York, for everything. Netherlands, for the Dutch Golden Age art. France,  Italy  for medieval architecture, winding roads. Rome, food, museums  and Vatican library.  Paris, for thinking about Marcel Proust, for Crazy Horse. Vienna, Poland, Croatia, Turkiye because I've never been. Anywhere you love or are excited to visit. Your pleasure will soon become my own!

Question 12

Privacy

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Discretion is always a given, mutual discretion is expected. I take privacy very seriously and expect the same from you. I am happy to sign any NDA/equivalents prior to our date, please these documents  to nina.o.australia@protonmail.com.Please let me know prior to providing my name as a reference, as I will not give out any details of our date without your explicit consent, with the exception of a small number of well-known colleagues/friends asking for this reference.

Question 13

Acting as  reference

Accepted Answer

I am happy to provide two references per year,  if we have spent more than 5 days together total. Very Important Please let me know prior to providing my name as a reference, as I will not give out any details of our date without your explicit consent.The only exception is  a very small number of well-known colleagues/friends. Regardless, please ask me beforehand, as a matter of courtesy.

Melbourne in September, Tokyo in October. Worldwide readily, passport-ready always.