The right gift begins or honours our connection in a way that words alone cannot. It shows me that I am special in your eyes and that you want me to feel as beautiful as I am to you. It signals something uniquely cherished and can have quite the effect on me.
Object A-ttainable
As a child, I had a period of time where I would wear oversized floral dresses and tie a huge satin ribbon around my waist and pretend I was a character in Jane Austen, although I just called it the "olden days," having no real concept of time.
I became so enamoured by Victorian architecture, antique jewels and ornamental dress, hand sewn satin gowns, bodices, riding sidesaddle, field-muddied dresses and so on. I quietly became very disappointed that I lived in an era of whiteboards and plastic, so ugly!
While I no longer take the world-at-large quite so personally, this aesthetic sensibility has never left. My studies of ancient material culture and art history, my curiosity about antiques and love of travel mask a secret, simple desire for beautiful, excellently crafted things. When I look into the museum cabinet and view the jewellery from the Graves of Ur or some Hellenistic masterpiece, a small transgressive voice in my head says, "Mine!"
Beauty means more to me than most, I think. The pleasurable warm-hug feeling of cashmere, the smell of leather boots and the pleasure of caring for them, the small irregularities in my favourite gold ring, these things give life to otherwise mundane items, and make them very special.
My other great love is learning, which I am similarly impractical about (life is too short to be practical always) and I like to dive deep into things that intrigue or excite me.
My travel wishlist includes all the places I'd love to see most, either solo or with somebody special.
My online Wishlist is regularly updated with specific lingerie, books, gear/tack and jewellery pieces.
Learning
Earlier this year I decided that I wanted to learn sailing. In July, I spent the most amazing week in Capri doing just that.
I am now doing online preparation for the next level, the skipper course.
I would love to go to the Whitsundays for this, as a university graduation celebration.
Gift cards
Arcteryx for outdoorsy things (gift cards purchased in-store only)
Aussieskier for skiing/snowsports
Qantas for flights/travel
Leonard Joel for antiques/antique fine jewellery (email info@leonardjoel.com.au)
Harvard University Press for Loeb Classics
Readings for novels, academic doorstops
St Luke Artists' Colourmen for art supplies
My online Wishlist for specific lingerie, books, gear/tack and jewellery pieces.
Objects of Lust

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